Be yourself in a world that tells you who you are

Everyone after high school tries to find themselves. They are told certain careers they should look into certain school, who to date, how to date, yet no one stops to think that not any single one of us is unique. We have our names our looks our personalities but they are all lists that have been pre-made. An emotion is a word from a list that everyone feels.  Things are names that we call them by and statuses all in a name. If you have “fill in blank brand”  you are “fill in blank of social status” . You like to read “oh you’re a nerd or a geek ”  and over the years through words and lists those words are considered “in”  or “hipster ” .
It’s actually quite entertaining when people say oh I’m special. You’re wearing clothes that 2 million other people wear you drive a car that’s made for everyone, you speak words that you didn’t even create. It’s all pretty funny.
These lists are how we build a society on. It first starts with a pink or blue blanket when you’re born and you are attached to a symbol not even a name yet. This list of even colors pertain to your life and are stuck in that column. Oh your race/ethnicity there I’d another list. Everything is a list and it’s your job to chose carefully. Be aware of the words you say, things you buy and wear, what you drive, and ect.  Most importantly be aware of who you are associated with ans what that makes of you. A list is still a list but you have the choice to be apart of a better one. Things that make you are break you are 1. What you say
2.whar you think
3. Who you associate with.
Reason being is what you say are seeds and taken account of by everyone. Chose carefully from the list you know and what you think will guide you’re life. Last but not lease who you associate with is huge. If you’re with someone who is fine with where you are right now they are parasites. True “friends”  aren’t ok with where you are now, they want to get you to where you need to be an accelerated path because they where your capacity can push you. People who also you should be around are up lifting and are equally yoked in thought and morals because those who don’t think the same can’t move past where they stand.
Life is a bunch of stories linked together by people and those who hold them. God is in mine and helps me through a lot along with those who he brings in. I am brought up on a list of morals and have never regretted that. A word of caution as well those who surround you thay may be blood could also be toxic to you and your life. So even though certain people may be “family”  it doesn’t mean they are good for you. Just be aware of those lists and which ones you’re a part of.